Family · Holidays

This Christmas

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This Christmas, mend a quarrel.
Seek out a forgotten friend.
Dismiss suspicion, and
replace it with trust.
Write a love letter.
Share some treasure.
Give a soft answer,
Encourage youth.
Manifest your loyalty
in word and deed.
Keep a promise. Find the time.
Forgive a grudge. Forgive an enemy.
Listen.
Apologize if you were wrong.
Try to understand. Flout envy.
Examine your demands on others.
Think first of someone else.
Appreciate. Be kind. Be gentle.
Laugh a little. Laugh a little more.
Deserve confidence.
Take up arms against malice.
Decry complacency.
Express your gratitude.
Go to church. Welcome a stranger.
Gladden the heart of a child.
Take pleasure in the beauty
And wonder of the earth.
Speak your love. Speak it again.
Speak it once again.
-Author Unknown

Candy · Family · Family Favorites · Holidays

Mom’s Best Butterscotch Caramels

Christmas always brings back memories of my Mother’s candy and cookie making traditions. My favorite, as evidenced on my Mother’s recipe card, was Butterscotch Caramels. They are such a favorite, that I don’t make them because I would eat too many. This year I wanted to make them to document this great recipe for our family. I lovingly prepared the caramels with the greatest care and confirmed, online. the temperature needed for caramels. I proudly poured the candy into the prepared pan and set them to cool.

Later in the day, I prepared to cut them. Uh, oh! They were as hard as a rock. This is the second misstep with my candy thermometer that now lives in the dump! I was so sad but decided I would break them like hard candy. If you were willing to go along with ‘it’s really a hard candy’ routine, they were delicious. I warned the family that they were capable of pulling out an expensive cavity filling, but worth the risk. The family ate them without complaint, but the next batch deserves a new, digital candy thermometer.

Mom, I tried but I will never be able to live up to your candy expertise. You were the master and my fond memories of those days live on. I miss you, Mom!

Mom’s Best Butterscotch Caramels

INGREDIENTS:
  • 2 cups white sugar
  • 1 3/4 cups white Karo
  • 3/4 cup unsalted butter
  • 1 pint cream
  • 1/2 tsp. vanilla
  • 1 cup chopped nuts, optional (walnuts or pecans)
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Place 1/2-pint cream, sugar and syrup in a heavy pan over low heat stirring constantly to prevent scorching.
  2. When mixture is boiling, slowly add the remaining cream and butter so the candy does not stop boiling.
  3. Cook, slowly, until the candy reaches a firm ball state, 246-248 degrees fahrenheit.
  4. If desired, sprinkle chopped nuts in the bottom of a buttered 9×13″ pan (or put nuts directly into the candy at this stage).
  5. Add vanilla to mixture. Pour over nuts (optional) or directly into the buttered pan.
  6. Let stand several hours. Cut into small squares and wrap individual caramels in squares of waxed paper.
  7. Makes 2.5 pounds of caramels.

My Mom, Betty Smaha

Family · Family Favorites · Holidays · New Traditions

The True Meaning of Comfort Food

Thanksgiving and comfort food belong together. While there are many comfort foods that we enjoy throughout the year, there is no better time to think about what comfort food means to us than at Thanksgiving. Comfort food not only soothes your belly but soothes your soul. You remember the moment, the aroma, the people, the feelings that you had when enjoying that specific food. Much of the time, we crave comfort food but why do we crave it? Do we crave the taste? The memories? The aromas? The people we were with?

This Thanksgiving, I am reflecting on many memories with my family growing up on the farm and the delightful extended family gatherings, food, games and laughs. The funny antics of Uncle Jack. The piano music and singing with my Aunt Wilma. The wonderful turkey and trimmings lovingly prepared by my Mother. My niece and nephews and I running around like crazy goofs. The endless card games with the women while the men ‘watched’ football games. Or let’s call it like it was…they were napping.

I’ve lost many of these many families, so I hold dear the memories that I have. Through the years, I’ve created new traditions with my girls and their families. I hope that we are creating the same kind of memories for them that I have of my childhood.

This Thanksgiving, take time to appreciate every member of your family. Make new memories and talk about the comfort food and memories of your life. Time is short. Make the most of every moment.

Appetizers · Candy · Holidays

Microwave Caramel Popcorn

Microwave Caramel Popcorn is an old recipe from my Mother’s recipe box. I haven’t made it in years but decided this would be a good family treat for my kids’ families instead of commercial candy. It reminds of my childhood and trick or treating in the rural community, going from farmhouse to farmhouse. We would often get homemade goodies, far better than commercial candy. Those days are gone but we can treat our families!

Microwave Caramel Popcorn

INGREDIENTS:
  • 1 cup brown sugar
  • 1 stick butter
  • 1/4 cup white karo
  • 1/2 tsp. salt
  • 1/2 tsp. baking soda
  • 2-4 quarts of popped popcorn
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Pop the popcorn and place in a brown paper grocery bag.
  2. Combine all ingredients, except popped corn and baking soda, in a 1.5 to 2 quart microwave-safe bowl. Melt the butter and sugar together, stirring occasionally, then bring to a boil and cook on high for 2 minutes. Remove from the microwave and stir in baking soda.
  3. Pour the caramel over the popcorn. Close the bag and shake to coat the popcorn. You can also take a large spoon to stir to assure you get the popcorn coated.
  4. Close the bag and microwave on high for 1.5 minutes. Remove from the microwave and shake. Mine was done after 1.5 minutes but if you can add another 1-1.5 minutes if necessary.
  5. Pour the caramel corn into a cool baking sheet. Cool and break apart. Store in an airtight container.

My Mom’s recipe box

Desserts · Holidays

Chocolate Covered Cherry Rice Krispie Treats

Happy Valentine’s Day! A sweet treat on this holiday is special and I loved how simple and delicious these treats were. My granddaughters assisted in the making, especially the sprinkles! Why have I never thought of adding flavoring to Rice Krispie Treats? Next time I would a pinch more cherry extract but they were delicious made per the recipe. If you want to really creative, you could use cookie cutters to cut out hearts from the treats (and nibble on the extras while you work)! Now I’m wondering about making some next Christmas with peppermint or candy cane flavoring. The possibilities are endless.

Chocolate Covered Cherry Rice Krispie Treats

INGREDIENTS:
  • 3 tablespoons unsalted butter
  • 1 10 oz bag mini marshmallows
  • 1 teaspoon cherry extract (can increase if more intense flavor is desired)
  • 4-5 drops red or pink food coloring, optional
  • 6 cups Rice Krispies cereal
  • 1 1/2 cups semi-sweet chocolate chips
  • 1 tablespoon coconut oil or butter
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Grease the 9×13-inch baking dish with butter or line it with parchment paper for easy removal.
  2. In a large pot over low heat, melt the butter. Add the mini marshmallows and stir until completely melted and smooth.
  3. Remove from heat and stir in the cherry extract. If using, add red or pink food coloring and mix until evenly colored.
  4. Add the Rice Krispies cereal, stirring quickly to coat every piece with the melted marshmallow mixture.
  5. Transfer the mixture into the prepared baking dish. Use a spatula or lightly greased hands to gently press down and create an even layer. Let cool for 15-20 minutes before adding the chocolate topping.
  6. In a microwave-safe bowl, melt the chocolate chips and coconut oil (or butter) in 30 second intervals, stirring between each, until smooth.
  7. Pour the melted chocolate over the cooled Rice Krispie layer. Use a spatula to spread evenly across the surface.
  8. Allow the chocolate to set completely before slicing (about 30 minutes at room temperature or 15 minutes in the fridge).
  9. Cut into squares and serve!

Recipe from Emily Parker from Fique

Holidays · Pies and Pastries

Homemade Eggnog Pie

Oh my gosh, this recipe is amazing. Daughter, Megan, made it for our holiday dinner in addition to our traditional Rum Cake and it was amazing. The family may have voted for this Eggnog Pie slightly over our beloved Rum Cake. I never thought that would be possible. Megan took the original recipe and kicked it up a notch with a homemade graham cracker crust and homemade eggnog, sans the alcohol, because of the kids. Even if you’re not an eggnog fan, I think you’ll love this pie!

Homemade Eggnog Pie

INGREDIENTS:
  • 2 cups cold eggnog OR make your own (recipe below)
  • 1 large box of Jell-O instant vanilla pudding
  • 1 cup whipped cream (or cool whip)
  • Splash or rum (optional)
  • pre made graham cracker crust OR make your own (recipe below)
  • sprinkle of nutmeg
  • Homemade Eggnog Option:
    • 4 beaten egg yolks
    • 2 cups milk
    • 1/3 cup sugar
    • 1 cup whipping cream
    • 2 tablespoons light rum (optional)
    • 2 tablespoons bourbon (optional)
    • 1 teaspoon vanilla
    • Ground Nutmeg
  • Graham Cracker Crust
    • 2 cups graham cracker crumbs (about 16 full sheet graham crackers)
    • 1/3 cup packed light or dark brown sugar
    • 1/2 cup (8 Tbsp) unsalted butter, melted
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Mix together eggnog, vanilla pudding, whipped cream (or Cool Whip).
  2. Pour into graham cracker crust.
  3. Homemade Eggnog Option:
    • In a large heavy saucepan, combine the egg yolks, milk and sugar. Cook and stir over medium heat until mixture just coats a metal spoon. Remove from heat Place the pan in a sink or bowl of ice water and stir for 2 minutes. Stir in whipping cream, rum, bourbon, and vanilla. Cover and chill for 4 to 24 hours. Use in recipe above or to serve as a beverage, sprinkle with nutmeg.
  4. Homemade Graham Cracker Crust:
    • Stir the graham cracker crust ingredients together. Pour into a 9 or 10-inch springform pan or pie dish and pack in very tightly. The tighter it’s packed, the less likely it will fall apart when cutting the cheesecake. I recommend using the bottom of a measuring cup to pack it into the bottom and up the sides. Freeze for 10–20 minutes as you prepare the filling.

Pie Recipe adapted from B. Dylan Hollis on Instagram

Homemade Eggnog Recipe from The Better Homes and Gardens Cookbook

Graham Cracker Crust recipe from SallysBakingAddiction

Cookies and Bars · Holidays

Soft Gingerbread Cookies

My daughter, Megan, has been making soft Gingerbread Cookies for years to give to neighbors and friends. This is her go-to recipe and it never disappoints. The family eagerly awaits her gingerbread making day! Decorate to your liking with icing and enjoy.

Soft Gingerbread Cookies

INGREDIENTS:
  • 1 cup butter flavor shortening
  • 1 1 ⁄ 4 cups sugar
  • 1 large egg
  • 1 cup molasses
  • 1/3 cup hot water
  • 1 teaspoon whole cloves
  • 1 cup flour
  • 1 ⁄ teaspoons baking soda
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1 teaspoon ginger
  • 1 tablespoon cinnamon
  • 4 cups flour
  • raisins (optional)
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Place cloves in hot water; set aside.
  2. Cream shortening and sugar.
  3. Add egg and beat.
  4. Add molasses, beat.
  5. Remove cloves from water, discard cloves.
  6. Add clove water, beat. *Dough will look “curdled”.
  7. Add rest of ingredients, except the last 4 cups flour, and beat. Gradually beat in last 4 cups flour.
  8. Chill dough.
  9. Roll out to 1/2″ thick or slightly less.
  10. Cut into shapes.
  11. Decorate with raisins if desired.
  12. Place carefully on ungreased cookie sheet.
  13. Bake at 375° for 8-10 minutes. Do not over bake.

Recipe from recipes.com

Desserts · Family Favorites · Holidays

Easy Pecan Shortbread Bars

The Easy Pecan Shortbread Bars are to die for. Daughter, Sarah, is the master of this recipe. The bars are rich, and so yummy. If you bring these to holiday gathering, be prepared to be on the hook for this recipe for all future events.

Easy Pecan Shortbread Bars Recipe

INGREDIENTS:
  • Shortbread Crust
    • ½ cup butter {softened}
    • ⅓ cup brown sugar {packed}
    • ½ teaspoon salt
    • 1 ½ cups flour
  • Pecan Filling
    • ¼ cup butter
    • ½ cup brown sugar {packed}
    • ¼ cup honey
    • 2 Tablespoons heavy cream
    • ½ Tablespoon vanilla extract {or vanilla bean paste}
    • 2 cups pecans {roughly chopped}
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Shortbread Crust
    • Preheat the oven to 375 degrees. Prepare a 9×9 pan by lining it with parchment paper and spraying with non-stick cooking spray, set aside. 
    • Using an electric mixer, cream together the butter and brown sugar until it is light and fluffy.  Add salt and flour, continue to mix until it resembles coarse crumbs.  Pour mixture into prepared pan and pat down into an even layer.  Bake for 15 minutes or until the sides start to turn golden brown.  Remove from oven and cool.
  2. Pecan Filling
    • Once crust has cooled, preheat oven to 325 degrees.  Combine butter, brown sugar, honey and heavy cream in a small sauce pan over medium-high heat.  Stir mixture and cook until it boils.  Remove from heat, add vanilla and stir.  Finally, add the chopped pecans and stir until coated. Pour the filling over the prepared crust.  Spread filling out into an even layer and bake for 15-20 minutes or until the filling is bubbly.  Remove from the oven and sprinkle the top with a small amount of flakey sea salt {optional}.  Cool and cut your pecan shortbread bars into squares.  Store in an air tight container for up to 5 days or freeze for up to 3 months.

Notes

  • Don’t skip the step of preparing the pan for this pecan bars recipe.  The topping is super sticky, so be sure that parchment paper goes up the sides of the pan.  I would also spray with nonstick cooking spray to be sure that it will remove easily.
  • The shortbread dough may look crumbly when you pour it into the pan but that is how it is supposed to be. It will come together as you press it into the pan and create a buttery shortbread crust.
  • This recipe can be easily doubled and made in a 9×13 pan. This will give you a good amount of bars and is great for feeding a crowd. 

Variations:

  • Chocolate Shortbread: Add cocoa powder to the shortbread crust ingredients for a delightful chocolate twist.
  • Spiced Crust: Add a pinch of ground cinnamon, nutmeg, or cardamom to the shortbread crust for a warm and aromatic touch.
  • Chocolate Pecan: Sprinkle chocolate chips or chunks over the shortbread crust before adding the pecan filling for a chocolatey delight.
  • Coconut Pecan: Mix shredded coconut into the pecan filling for a tropical twist.

Recipe from PracticallyHomemade

Candy · Holidays

Bunny Munch

What fun it is to plan holiday treats for the grandkids. The kids get the usual chocolate bunnies, Peeps, etc. from their parents so Bunny Munch was just the ticket for Grandma Cathy to make. We all love popcorn and with the additional of the sweet treats, it is decandent and addictive. It’s good thing I’ll only make this once a year!

Bunny Munch

INGREDIENTS:
  • 12 cups popped popcorn (~1/3 cup kernels)
  • 2 cups gluten free pretzel sticks (I like Snyder’s GF)
  • 1-1/2 cups peanuts
  • 12oz bag gluten free white chocolate chips
  • 1 Tablespoon vegetable or coconut oil
  • 11oz bag M&Ms (Fork-Lore: I found Rice Krispie M&Ms for Easter and loved using those)
  • gluten free sprinkles, optional
  • coarse sea salt, optional
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Spread a couple sheets of parchment paper, wax paper, or two silpats onto the countertop then set aside.
  2. Add popcorn, pretzel sticks, and peanuts to a very large bowl — if you don’t have an XL bowl, use two large bowls — then set aside.
  3. Add chocolate chips and coconut oil to a medium-sized, microwave-safe bowl then microwave for 40 seconds and stir. Microwave for 30 seconds then stir. If chocolate chips aren’t completely smooth, continue microwaving in 10 seconds increments, stirring between increments, until completely melted.
  4. Drizzle chocolate over popcorn mixture then gently fold with a spatula until everything is evenly coated. Spread mixture out onto prepared surface then immediately sprinkle with M&Ms (may not use whole bag) and press gently so they adhere to the warm chocolate. Add sprinkles and a big pinch of coarse sea salt, if using, then let Bunny Munch cool completely. Transfer to treat bags or an airtight container.
  5. (Fork-Lore: I bagged the Bunny Munch in individual bags to give the grandkids in their Easter basket).

Recipe from IowaGirlEats

Breads · Holidays

Soda Bread by Ina Garten

St. Patrick’s Day wouldn’t be complete without corned beef and cabbage accompanied by Irish Soda Bread. I’ve made Irish Soda Bread in years past, but decided to try Ina Garten’s recipe. The texture was wonderful and the taste was sweeter than the past versions with the addition of orange peel and raisins. It is wonderful toasted the next day for breakfast.

Soda Bread

INGREDIENTS:
  • 4 cups all-purpose flour, plus extra for currants
  • 4 tablespoons sugar
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1 1/2 teaspoons kosher salt
  • 4 tablespoons (1/2 stick) cold unsalted butter, cut into 1/2-inch dice
  • 1 3/4 cups cold buttermilk, shaken
  • 1 extra-large egg, lightly beaten
  • 1 teaspoon grated orange zest
  • 1 cup dried currants (I used raisins)
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Preheat the oven to 375 degrees F. Line a sheet pan with parchment paper.
  2. Combine the flour, sugar, baking soda, and salt in the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment. Add the butter and mix on low speed until the butter is mixed into the flour.
  3. With a fork, lightly beat the buttermilk, egg, and orange zest together in a measuring cup. With the mixer on low speed, slowly add the buttermilk mixture to the flour mixture. Combine the currants with 1 tablespoon of flour and mix into the dough. It will be very wet.
  4. Dump the dough onto a well-floured board and knead it a few times into a round loaf. Place the loaf on the prepared sheet pan and lightly cut an X into the top of the bread with a serrated knife. Bake for 45 to 55 minutes, or until a cake tester comes out clean. When you tap the loaf, it will have a hollow sound.
  5. Cool on a baking rack. Serve warm or at room temperature.
  6. Optional: I buttered the top of the warm bread when it came out of the oven.

Recipe from FoodNetwork/Ina Garten