Family · Holidays

This Christmas

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This Christmas, mend a quarrel.
Seek out a forgotten friend.
Dismiss suspicion, and
replace it with trust.
Write a love letter.
Share some treasure.
Give a soft answer,
Encourage youth.
Manifest your loyalty
in word and deed.
Keep a promise. Find the time.
Forgive a grudge. Forgive an enemy.
Listen.
Apologize if you were wrong.
Try to understand. Flout envy.
Examine your demands on others.
Think first of someone else.
Appreciate. Be kind. Be gentle.
Laugh a little. Laugh a little more.
Deserve confidence.
Take up arms against malice.
Decry complacency.
Express your gratitude.
Go to church. Welcome a stranger.
Gladden the heart of a child.
Take pleasure in the beauty
And wonder of the earth.
Speak your love. Speak it again.
Speak it once again.
-Author Unknown

Candy · Family · Family Favorites · Holidays

Mom’s Best Butterscotch Caramels

Christmas always brings back memories of my Mother’s candy and cookie making traditions. My favorite, as evidenced on my Mother’s recipe card, was Butterscotch Caramels. They are such a favorite, that I don’t make them because I would eat too many. This year I wanted to make them to document this great recipe for our family. I lovingly prepared the caramels with the greatest care and confirmed, online. the temperature needed for caramels. I proudly poured the candy into the prepared pan and set them to cool.

Later in the day, I prepared to cut them. Uh, oh! They were as hard as a rock. This is the second misstep with my candy thermometer that now lives in the dump! I was so sad but decided I would break them like hard candy. If you were willing to go along with ‘it’s really a hard candy’ routine, they were delicious. I warned the family that they were capable of pulling out an expensive cavity filling, but worth the risk. The family ate them without complaint, but the next batch deserves a new, digital candy thermometer.

Mom, I tried but I will never be able to live up to your candy expertise. You were the master and my fond memories of those days live on. I miss you, Mom!

Mom’s Best Butterscotch Caramels

INGREDIENTS:
  • 2 cups white sugar
  • 1 3/4 cups white Karo
  • 3/4 cup unsalted butter
  • 1 pint cream
  • 1/2 tsp. vanilla
  • 1 cup chopped nuts, optional (walnuts or pecans)
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Place 1/2-pint cream, sugar and syrup in a heavy pan over low heat stirring constantly to prevent scorching.
  2. When mixture is boiling, slowly add the remaining cream and butter so the candy does not stop boiling.
  3. Cook, slowly, until the candy reaches a firm ball state, 246-248 degrees fahrenheit.
  4. If desired, sprinkle chopped nuts in the bottom of a buttered 9×13″ pan (or put nuts directly into the candy at this stage).
  5. Add vanilla to mixture. Pour over nuts (optional) or directly into the buttered pan.
  6. Let stand several hours. Cut into small squares and wrap individual caramels in squares of waxed paper.
  7. Makes 2.5 pounds of caramels.

My Mom, Betty Smaha

Family · Family Favorites · Holidays · New Traditions

The True Meaning of Comfort Food

Thanksgiving and comfort food belong together. While there are many comfort foods that we enjoy throughout the year, there is no better time to think about what comfort food means to us than at Thanksgiving. Comfort food not only soothes your belly but soothes your soul. You remember the moment, the aroma, the people, the feelings that you had when enjoying that specific food. Much of the time, we crave comfort food but why do we crave it? Do we crave the taste? The memories? The aromas? The people we were with?

This Thanksgiving, I am reflecting on many memories with my family growing up on the farm and the delightful extended family gatherings, food, games and laughs. The funny antics of Uncle Jack. The piano music and singing with my Aunt Wilma. The wonderful turkey and trimmings lovingly prepared by my Mother. My niece and nephews and I running around like crazy goofs. The endless card games with the women while the men ‘watched’ football games. Or let’s call it like it was…they were napping.

I’ve lost many of these many families, so I hold dear the memories that I have. Through the years, I’ve created new traditions with my girls and their families. I hope that we are creating the same kind of memories for them that I have of my childhood.

This Thanksgiving, take time to appreciate every member of your family. Make new memories and talk about the comfort food and memories of your life. Time is short. Make the most of every moment.

Cookies and Bars · Family

Golden Carrot Cookies

My Mother gave me the Betty Crocker Cooky Book for Christmas 1967, when I was 14 years old. I have used this book for a ‘few years’ and for the first time I noticed how Cooky was spelled. I have always spelled these delights as cookie but Merriam Webster says it can be cooky or cookie.

Golden Carrot Cookies are like a carrot cake in a cookie with a delightful orange glaze on top. While some of the children and grandchildren were hesitant to try carrot cookys, they all agreed they were good. 

If you ever see this Cooky Book at a garage sale or Goodwill, it’s worth adding to your collection!

Golden Carrot Cookies

INGREDIENTS:
  • 1 cup shortening (part butter or margarine)
  • 3/4 cup sugar
  • 2 eggs
  • 1 cup mashed cooked carrots
  • 2 cups Gold Medal flour
  • 2 tsp. baking powder
  • 1/2 tsp. salt
  • 3/4 cup shredded coconut
  • Orange Butter Icing:
    • 2 tbsp. soft butter
    • 1 1/2 cups sifted confectioners’ sugar
    • 1 1/2 tbsp. orange juice
    • 2 tsp. grated orange rind
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Heat oven to 400 degrees Fahrenheit.
  2. Mix shortening, sugar, eggs and carrots.
  3. Measure flour by dipping method or by sifting. Blend flour, baking powder, and salt into shortening mixture. Mix in coconut.
  4. Drop dough by teaspoonfuls about 2″ apart on lightly greased baking sheet. Bake 8 to 10 minutes, or until no imprint remains when touched lightly. Frost cooled cookies with Icing. Makes 4 dozen.

Recipe from Betty Crocker’s COOKY BOOK Copyright 1963

Appetizers · Family · Family Favorites · Fish · Sandwiches

Maryland Crab Cakes with Remoulade Sauce

Crab and Crab Cakes are a family favorite! Oh, the memories of visiting the crab houses in Maryland with family, hammers in hand with bibs on all. Or on Sarah’s 4th Birthday when she requested crab and artichockes for her birthday dinner. Be careful when introducing young kids to expensive food…they might just like it!

Crab Cakes are easy to make and delicious alone or on a bun with Remoulade sauce. This family favorite will be returning soon.

Maryland Crab Cakes

INGREDIENTS:

1 pound jumbo lump, handpicked Maryland crabmeat (I purchased crab meat from Costco)
½ cup breadcrumbs
1 egg, beaten
5 tbsp mayonnaise
1 tbsp finely chopped parsley
1 tbsp Worcestershire sauce
1 tsp prepared mustard
1 tbsp Old Bay Seasoning or J.O. Crab Seasoning

DIRECTIONS:

Combine breadcrumbs, egg, mayonnaise, parsley, Worcestershire sauce, mustard, and crab seasoning and mix well.

Pour mixture over crabmeat and fold in taking care not to break up the lumps.

Form into six cakes and pat until just firm, then deep fry in 350°F corn oil 2-3 minutes until golden brown.

Recipe from visitmaryland.org

Remoulade Sauce

  • ⅔ cup mayo
  • 1 Tablespoon dijon mustard
  • 1 Tablespoon lemon juice
  • 1 Tablespoon chopped chives
  • 1 teaspoon worcestershire sauce
  • 1 teaspoon lemon zest
  • ½ teaspoon smoked paprika
  • ⅛ teaspoon cayenne pepper
  • salt & pepper to taste

Stir all together to combine.  Chill.

Family · Meats · Pastas

Beef & Noodles

Beef & Noodles is a delicious comfort food that was a new experience for me. The beef broth was deliciously rich and yummy over mashed potatoes. I grew up on Chicken & Noodles over mashed potatoes, a family favorite. This dinner was shared with my daughters and we all agreed, Chicken & Noodles is still our favorite although we enjoyed this dish immensely.

Beef & Noodles

INGREDIENTS:
  • Beef Chuck Roast
  • 1 onion (chopped)
  • 4 large garlic cloves (minced)
  • 8 cups of beef stock
  • 32 oz. frozen egg noodles
  • Salt and Pepper
  • Oil for searing and sautéing. 
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Season chuck roast liberally with salt and pepper.
  2. Add oil (I used Avocado Oil) to pan and sear roast on all sides. Remove from pan. 
  3. Add additional oil and sauté onion until translucent, add garlic and sauté for 1-2 minus (until fragrant). Add roast back to pan and pour 1. 5 cups of beef broth. Turn pan to medium low and cook for 5-6 hours or until chuck roast is tender. 
  4. Remove chuck roast from pot and shred. Skim fat from remaining broth (or run it through a fat separator) then add shredded beef back to pot along with remaining 6.5 cups of beef broth. Once boiling add in the thawed noodles and cook until desired consistency. 
  5. Serve over mashed potatoes.
Cookies and Bars · Family · Family Favorites

Dan’s Oatmeal Cookies

Dan sent the recipe for these delicious cookies to daughter, Megan, and we loved them! They are chewy and ‘healthy’ or so we told ourselves. It’s wonderful to share our recipes with family and friends! Thanks, Dan!

Dan’s Oatmeal Cookies

INGREDIENTS:
  • 1 pound margarine
  • 2 cups brown sugar (packed)
  • 1 cup white sugar
  • 4 eggs
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla
  • 3 cups flour
  • 2 teaspoons baking soda
  • 1 teaspoon cinnamon
  • 6 cups uncooked oatmeal
  • 2 teaspoons salt
  • 8 oz. walnuts (optional)
  • 6 oz. dried cranberries or cherries (optional)
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Line cookie sheet with parchment paper.
  2. Cream margarine and sugar. Add eggs and vanilla. Beat well.
  3. Combine all dry ingredients. Add dry ingredients to wet mixture.
  4. Drop cookies onto cookie sheets and bake until golden brown.

Recipe shared by Dan Stout, a family favorite

Family · Family Favorites · Garden · Home · Soups and Stews · Vegetarian

Roasted Tomato Soup

Campbell’s Tomato Soup and grilled cheese were common in our house when the girls were growing up. Now that I’ve discovered homemade tomato soup, the canned stuff is out the door. I roast tomatoes all summer and freeze them for soup and sauces in the winter. The tomatoes I had frozen did not have garlic and onion in them, so I sautéed the onion in a little olive oil and added the garlic when the onions were brown. The end result was delicious. The soup was a little thick, so I added water to gain the consistency I like.

The perfect lunch or dinner for a snowy winter day!

Roasted Tomato Soup

INGREDIENTS:
  • 3 lb. Roma Tomatoes (I used a variety of tomatoes from my garden)
  • Olive Oil
  • 1/2 small onion
  • 2 tablespoons minced garlic
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1/4 teaspoon pepper
  • 1 cup milk or cream (I used Half and Half)
  • 1/2 cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese
  • 3 tablespoons fresh basil (I used pureed frozen basil)
  • 2 tablespoons tomato paste
  • 1 teaspoon sugar
  • salt and pepper to taste
  • Water or milk to thin the soup to your liking
DIRECTIONS:
  1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees.
  2. Line cookie sheet with parchment paper. Cut tomatoes in half, drizzle with oil. Add onions, garlic, salt and pepper.
  3. Roast for 40-50 minutes, until the tomatoes start to brown. (At this point you can freeze the tomato mixture for later or proceed with the recipe.)
  4. Scrape the tomato mixture into the blender and add the milk or cream, Parmesan cheese, basil, tomato paste, and sugar. Puree until completely smooth and adjust seasonings to taste.
  5. Serve immediately with grilled cheese for dunking. Yum!

Recipe adapted from thereciperebel.com

https://www.thereciperebel.com/easy-roasted-tomato-soup-and-a-giveaway/

Desserts · Family · Family Favorites · Holidays

Chocolate Mousse by Megan

Megan is the dessert queen of our family.  She whipped up this decadent dessert and served it in an antique compote dish of my Mother’s.  It was rich, velvety and so wonderful.  Perfect for your Valentine’s Day dinner…or anytime you want to spoil your family and friends.

CHOCOLATE MOUSSE

6 ounces (170 g) semisweet chocolate, finely chopped
6 tablespoons (89 g) unsalted butter, cubed
4 large egg yolks
1/4 cup (50 g) granulated sugar
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1 cup (240 ml) heavy cream
Sweetened whipped cream, chocolate shavings, and fresh strawberries for garnish, optional

  • In a small heatproof bow, combine the chocolate and butter. Set the bowl over a pot of barely simmering water. Stir constantly until chocolate is melted and smooth. Remove from heat but leave the pot of simmering water on the burner.
  • In a medium heatproof bowl, whisk the egg yolks and sugar together until well combined. Set the bowl over the pot of barely simmering water and whisk for about 5 minutes, until the mixture turns pale and becomes slightly stiff. Remove from heat.
  • Stir in the vanilla followed by the chocolate mixture. Stir for a few more minutes to allow the mixture to cool then set aside until it cools to room temperature.
  • In a large bowl, whip the cream to soft peaks. Whisk 1/4 of the whipped cream into the cooled chocolate mixture. Use a silicone spatula to gently fold in the remaining whipped cream until fully mixed in.
  • Divide the mousse among four 6-ounce ramekins and refrigerate until set, about 1 hours.
  • Garnish with whipped cream, chocolate shavings, raspberries, or strawberries if desired.

HOMEMADE WHIPPED CREAM

1 cup (240 ml) heavy whipping cream
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
4 tablespoons confectioners’ sugar

  • In a medium bowl, whip cream with an electric mixer on medium-low speed just until soft peaks form.
  • Add vanilla extract and sugar. Continue to whip until the cream forms stiff peaks. Make sure not to over beat, the cream will become lumpy and butter-like.

Recipe from bakedbyanintrovert.com

Cookies and Bars · Family · Holidays

Valentine’s Day Cookies

Valentine’s Day brings back memories of making Valentine’s Day cards, making and eating sweet treats, and enjoying wonderful dinners with those I love. Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be an expensive, extravagant day.  It’s really about being with or talking to those you love.  I often express my love through cooking, as my Mother did.

These colorful cookies were fun to make, to share and to eat.  Share a batch with those you love and enjoy the day!

VALENTINE’S DAY M&M COOKIES